Most people walk through life thinking things happen to them.
A job loss. 😬
A bill you didn’t expect. 💸
Someone treating you badly. 🙄
It feels unfair.
It feels personal.
It feels like the world is against you.
But what if you could look at things differently?
What if it was all done for you?
(The difference between “to me” and “for me.” A small word. A huge shift.)
↳ That job loss?
→ A nudge to find work you’ll actually enjoy
→ A push to grow in ways you never would have
↳ That unexpected expense?
→ An unplanned lesson in budgeting and resilience.
→ A reminder to focus on what really matters
↳ That rude person?
→ An instant pop quiz on your patience
→ A perfect example of how NOT to treat others 🤦
Looking back, the good in things often jumps right out.
But in the moment, it’s hard.
It feels heavy.
It feels like a setback.
Still, making that mental shift from “to me” to “for me” is a GAME-CHANGER. 💥
You stop feeling helpless.
You start seeing yourself as someone who can grow, adapt—and MOVE FORWARD.
You find meaning in the mess.
You find strength in the struggle.
This isn’t about pretending things are great when they’re not.
It’s about choosing to trust that every challenge brings an opportunity, even if it’s well disguised.
A chance to learn.
A chance to get stronger.
A chance to become the person you’re working to be.
You can’t control what happens.
But you can ALWAYS choose your story.
Choose “for me.”
It’s the story that moves you forward.
Avraham
Your Financial Coach
P.S. Ready to stop letting life just happen to you? Book a free session and start taking control—let’s do this together! Start your journey here 🚀
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